First, I'd highly recommend a tank with curved corner overflows. The square overflow covers create a lot of dead space along the back wall of your tank that will have to be dealt with.
Second, someone on here has a brother that can build you a single center brace for the tank. My oceanic has two glass braces that are pretty wide and they make maintenance a PITA.
You'll want a sump of at least 40G. I went with a 40 breeder so that I would still have plenty of space inside the stand for other toys. For top off I use the Avast Marine pressure switch, and MJ 400 and a rubbermaid 5G container. My tank evaps about 5G a week so you probably don't want to go much smaller on your top off container. Honestly, you could use an old salt bucket and save yourself a few bucks (plus avoid algae problems).
I used a combination of flex hose and PVC for my plumbing. I wanted to get the plumbing as close to the ceiling of the stand and this was the best solution for me. Using the standard Durso pipes and unless I open up the return pump, have no plumbing noise at all.
I'm using a Mag 12 for my return. It's too powerful and probably could have gotten away with a 9.5. I have the return throttled down about 35% with a ball valve.
I'm not using a Ca reactor. I dose two-part with peristaltic pumps. Alk, Ca and Mg are rock steady. I have been running EcoBak on a BRS reactor but am about to take that offline and switch to manual dosing of probiotics.
We've already addressed your skimmer in your other thread. It's not necessary to spend $500+ on a skimmer for your 180. There are plenty of options in the $300-350 range that will work just fine.
I'm running 2xMP40W and 1xMP10W inside the tank for flow. 40s on the ends and a 10 on the back wall. I likely will add another 10 on the back wall to help address the dead spots mentioned above. With the exception of those two corners, I have tons of flow in the tank. 2xMP40 would be sufficient, as would some combination of Koralia or Tunze. I simply prefer the Vortech aesthetics.
Is this going to be a mixed reef with SPS? If so, you'll need at least 8 tubes of 80W T5 (or 6 overdriven on IC 660s). For halide you could run 3x250 or 2x400. I wouldn't run 3x400 because of the heat.
Hope that helps. I planned my build for a month or so before setting it up and I'm happy with it. The one thing I wish I had done differently was buy a new tank with low-iron glass.