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Last year I lost a good friend to suicide and just awhile ago I got a call telling me I had lost another one of my brothers to ptsd . I just don't get it , I wish I could have reached out to him sooner or that he would have reached out to someone. If you are having thoughts of hurting yourself or others please seek help ,because it hurts so much when you take that road . I'm sorry for my long post I just needed to vent .
 

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Bro, I know your feelings.
It ain't easy to see that happening to others.
There's is a awesome organization helping these brave heroes "Camp Hope".
Last Thursday, we'll for that matter this whole month of August the RCC raised almost $300.000 for this.
I'm working out a big plan to even double that maybe twice in the next few months.
Just a few details and I'll presented it to the Big man in Houston, their spokesman Michael Berry.
Sure I can use another brother on my side to help me out with this.
Your chance to reach out in a small way can change life's in a big whole.
What do you say?
 

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see alot of peeps asking for help but not really verbal about it. i feel as though we are way too busy to just sit back and pay attention to others. sometimes simple hello and do you want some coffee would help someone out tremendously.
 

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see alot of peeps asking for help but not really verbal about it. i feel as though we are way too busy to just sit back and pay attention to others. sometimes simple hello and do you want some coffee would help someone out tremendously.

Correct, my plan is even larger.
Putting them who need help back on track with everyday life as in running a business.
Most important of this is that it's a existing business that I own and I'm willing to step away and have service men/women run and operate it.
it's a win win solution, it gives them a job and reach out to other service members to do the same and bring in revenue for Camp Hope, who on their turn get them on track.
 
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Personal info, but I've been inches away from suicide personally. I can say, when someone gets to that point, many times they won't ask for help because they CAN'T. The only solution they see is getting out, I know. Asking for help just isn't thought of when life itself is completely pointless. If it weren't for my best friend and my husband (then fiance), I wouldn't be here. They held on to me, made me get help when I didn't want it, and saved my life.

Those who haven't experienced true suicidal ideations really can't fully understand what its like. A helping hand that won't let go at the worst time is a lifeline. It can be hard to be the anchor for a suicidal person as they see no point in getting help. But when they try to push you away that's when they need you the most. Get them in touch with a professional who understands what they're going through. Sometimes though for those who are alone just having a friend to talk to can make all the difference.
 

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often people dont realize how truly they are cared for and how much pain their death will cause. Our lives are often so busy
we forget to reach out to others even just a small jesture. I dont have any solutions so many times people take their lives
without even a clue. Do know if someones says their going to kill their self they need help immediatly, seen it happen too
many times where I worked. People said they heard people saying they were suicidal and the next day their dead, they just
didnt believe them.
 

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Personal info, but I've been inches away from suicide personally. I can say, when someone gets to that point, many times they won't ask for help because they CAN'T. The only solution they see is getting out, I know. Asking for help just isn't thought of when life itself is completely pointless. If it weren't for my best friend and my husband (then fiance), I wouldn't be here. They held on to me, made me get help when I didn't want it, and saved my life.

Those who haven't experienced true suicidal ideations really can't fully understand what its like. A helping hand that won't let go at the worst time is a lifeline. It can be hard to be the anchor for a suicidal person as they see no point in getting help. But when they try to push you away that's when they need you the most. Get them in touch with a professional who understands what they're going through. Sometimes though for those who are alone just having a friend to talk to can make all the difference.

Cat, so sorry to hear this.
Glad you had the right ppl on your side that time.
Camp Hope is a organization that is in charge by the right ppl and if they know a person that has problems they will send out service men that been there them selfs, as like you.
They know what they talking about.
Check this out and you will understand Camp Hope - PTSD, Combat Stress and TBI are real wounds of war.
 
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