flexrac said:
Great place! but it can't beat houston home and apartment prices.
Heck ya. The cost of living is insane. That's why we all get stuck here... it sucks to move anywhere else!
I wasn't at my computer before, on my phone.
But you can't compare NYC to houston unless you are comparing it to JUST the center of downtown houston. Which is pretty much dead. You just couldn't live there. On the other hand, I love to visit, but wouldn't want to live in NYC either. I had the option of going to art school there and turned it down.
NY State as a whole though I would take any day over Houston, and I know I'll get flamed for it, but it's true. And it's not a slam, it's just personal preference. But the schools are way better. Crime is way lower. The drinking water is cleaner, the scenery is gorgeous. It's very clean. There are 4 real seasons. When anyone says "NY", everyone thinks of Manhattan, and if you are not used to the hussel and bussel, i can see it being a turnoff. But the whole northeast is just a beautiful place to live.
I actually do like a lot about Houston, especially the diversity here vs other parts of Texas. I like the warm weather, the people are generally nice, the food is fantastic... I was just busting balls before.
But I also have some issues with it. The grass is always greener, nowhere is perfect, but if I had complete financial freedom, this would not be the place I would choose to live, nor raise a family. We're expecting in a couple months, and knowing what I know, the thought is downright scary.
Austin is actually more our style than Houston and is closer to the vibe you get from upstate NY, like Rochester and Syracuse. But we both have great jobs here (another advantage to houston and why we moved) and my family.