AquaNerd
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I have debated even bringing this up, but after stewing about it for several days, I have to get it off my chest. I was contacted by the BOD and told that my status as a forum moderator was being revoked due to a perceived conflict of interest. There wasn't any detail associated with the message, just a blunt statement. At first I didn't think much of it. Just curious as to why. After all, this is a virtual community and it has no weight in my daily life other than a place to kill a little time and interact with other aquarium keepers. But after thinking about it more and more, I got more irritated and the lack of answers wasn't helping. So, I began to inquire as to why the BOD was doing this to me, and honestly I was a little shocked about the answer.
Apparently, one brand new member of your BOD had a problem with me asking the MARSH community if anyone was interested in writing for my blog (http://blog.aquanerd.com). I only offered the opportunity to write for the site because I thought it would be a great chance for whoever participated to share their knowledge with another community and potentially get paid or receive free aquarium equipment to review in return. Despite this, the unnamed BOD member thought there was a conflict of interest (not exactly sure how or where), and whined about it to the other members of the board. They then voted (I'm assuming) to remove my moderator abilities, which are powers that I never ever abused or caused any problems with. But, whatever. Let the BOD do whatever it wants to do right? I guess it's ok to post about job opportunities elsewhere but when a moderator does it once it's a big issue.
I began to think about the situation a litte more and again became frustrated, so I dug a little deeper. The other thing I found out was that the BOD member in question had a problem with my site not having a link back to MARSH. Really?!?!? That's where your beef lies? He argued that I had a link in my signature to my website, but not one on my site back to MARSH. Honestly, I understand why someone would question me not having a link on my site back to MARSH, but nobody on here ever asked me to host one and I certainly never thought it would lead to my status being revoked. The BOD members who you trust to be in charge of advertising and getting sponsors never once contacted me about hosting a link, and I would have gladly given it to them had they asked. All of the links on my website are in place intentionally, and not just for anyone. I have special agreements with each of those companies/websites that have a link on my page and I only link to what I consider reputable sources. I'm not saying MARSH isn't reputable, but again nobody asked for a link back so, I never did it.
If this link drama really is a problem for the BOD, then this club has bigger issues. First of all, there isn't a conflict of interest. There would be one if I were a moderator of the MARSH forum and associated with a company that was a commercial sponsor, or even a commercial non-sponsor. But all I do is run a blog. That's it! By the way, there are other moderators on this site that moderate for other forum sites. And guess what, previous presidents, vice presidents, and other moderators had blog sites as well. So, why am I being singled out?
At one point in my assocation with this club, I was a member of the board of directors. After one year of service, I announced to the BOD that I would volutarily stepped down to pursue some outside opportunities that would be a direct conflict of interest with being a board member, but those have completely fallen through and the BOD at the time allowed me to retain the moderator status. I enjoyed being a moderator on the site, even though it only meant more work for me, but I didn't mind at all. During my membership here, I worked hard for this club and even got new sponsors to join. I've been a paid member for many consecutive years, despite the fact that I never ask for anything in return. I show up to some events, take photos and share them, rub elbows with a few people here and there, and I don't stir up trouble (until now perhaps). Now, if one BOD member has a problem with me, then be a man and confront me about it to my face, or at least to my PM box...especially since I've been an active member of this club for far longer and have contributed far more. Don't run around and try to stab me in the back because you have an issue with something that's really a non-issue. If you have a problem with me posting links to my site and you want to be forum-Nazi's like the guys at ReefCentral, then you have to do it to everyone and not just me. A lot of people post links to other sites and blogs on a regular basis, and I do it once in a blue moon. At this point, I don't even want to be a moderator anymore. You've ruined my experience with the club. I was even willing to give presentations at club meetings about topics that I've learned a lot about and have experience with. In fact, I even started building a PowerPoint presentation in preparation of a speaking engagement that hasn't even been offered to me yet. That's how excited I was to share what I know about this great hobby with the rest of you. But now that this has happened, I'm have strong doubts that the presentation will ever take place.
So that's my peace. Do whatever you want to with it. Delete it, edit it, ban me, I don't care. But just know that what you are doing is not only wrong, but hurtful to the community you promised to serve.
Apparently, one brand new member of your BOD had a problem with me asking the MARSH community if anyone was interested in writing for my blog (http://blog.aquanerd.com). I only offered the opportunity to write for the site because I thought it would be a great chance for whoever participated to share their knowledge with another community and potentially get paid or receive free aquarium equipment to review in return. Despite this, the unnamed BOD member thought there was a conflict of interest (not exactly sure how or where), and whined about it to the other members of the board. They then voted (I'm assuming) to remove my moderator abilities, which are powers that I never ever abused or caused any problems with. But, whatever. Let the BOD do whatever it wants to do right? I guess it's ok to post about job opportunities elsewhere but when a moderator does it once it's a big issue.
I began to think about the situation a litte more and again became frustrated, so I dug a little deeper. The other thing I found out was that the BOD member in question had a problem with my site not having a link back to MARSH. Really?!?!? That's where your beef lies? He argued that I had a link in my signature to my website, but not one on my site back to MARSH. Honestly, I understand why someone would question me not having a link on my site back to MARSH, but nobody on here ever asked me to host one and I certainly never thought it would lead to my status being revoked. The BOD members who you trust to be in charge of advertising and getting sponsors never once contacted me about hosting a link, and I would have gladly given it to them had they asked. All of the links on my website are in place intentionally, and not just for anyone. I have special agreements with each of those companies/websites that have a link on my page and I only link to what I consider reputable sources. I'm not saying MARSH isn't reputable, but again nobody asked for a link back so, I never did it.
If this link drama really is a problem for the BOD, then this club has bigger issues. First of all, there isn't a conflict of interest. There would be one if I were a moderator of the MARSH forum and associated with a company that was a commercial sponsor, or even a commercial non-sponsor. But all I do is run a blog. That's it! By the way, there are other moderators on this site that moderate for other forum sites. And guess what, previous presidents, vice presidents, and other moderators had blog sites as well. So, why am I being singled out?
At one point in my assocation with this club, I was a member of the board of directors. After one year of service, I announced to the BOD that I would volutarily stepped down to pursue some outside opportunities that would be a direct conflict of interest with being a board member, but those have completely fallen through and the BOD at the time allowed me to retain the moderator status. I enjoyed being a moderator on the site, even though it only meant more work for me, but I didn't mind at all. During my membership here, I worked hard for this club and even got new sponsors to join. I've been a paid member for many consecutive years, despite the fact that I never ask for anything in return. I show up to some events, take photos and share them, rub elbows with a few people here and there, and I don't stir up trouble (until now perhaps). Now, if one BOD member has a problem with me, then be a man and confront me about it to my face, or at least to my PM box...especially since I've been an active member of this club for far longer and have contributed far more. Don't run around and try to stab me in the back because you have an issue with something that's really a non-issue. If you have a problem with me posting links to my site and you want to be forum-Nazi's like the guys at ReefCentral, then you have to do it to everyone and not just me. A lot of people post links to other sites and blogs on a regular basis, and I do it once in a blue moon. At this point, I don't even want to be a moderator anymore. You've ruined my experience with the club. I was even willing to give presentations at club meetings about topics that I've learned a lot about and have experience with. In fact, I even started building a PowerPoint presentation in preparation of a speaking engagement that hasn't even been offered to me yet. That's how excited I was to share what I know about this great hobby with the rest of you. But now that this has happened, I'm have strong doubts that the presentation will ever take place.
So that's my peace. Do whatever you want to with it. Delete it, edit it, ban me, I don't care. But just know that what you are doing is not only wrong, but hurtful to the community you promised to serve.