That is a tough choice. I have never had a cinnamon or tomato, but I have had the other three. My Ocellaris was with a carpet anemone, so I'm not familiar with keeping them with BTAs. It was the most mellow of the three - it never bothered anyone that I can recall. My Clarkii harasses a large fairy wrasse and has bitten me. My maroon and gold is very aggressive towards flame angels when first introduced, but it seems to be able to come to a truce after a few days.
If you're thinking long term, the maroon and gold ones eventually lose their stripes apparently. Mine is 14 years old and still has very intense colored stripes, but they are getting thinner.
When I have to replace one of mine, I think it will be between an Ocellaris and a maroon, but I'm not sure which one it will be.